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With such important lessons to learn, the world has been given the time to learn them.

 

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A short time  ago a good person I know posted these words on Facebook regarding the current crisis caused by the Coronavirus. “I have never seen anything like this in my lifetime”. Well the truth is that none of us ever have.  What the entire planet is experiencing is unlike anything anyone alive today has ever seen.  As bad as it is on so many levels, I can’t stop but think that in some ways it was inevitable.

Despite what some of the words I am about to write might imply, I am an extremely  positive person.  I spend my life looking at the bright side of things, giving people the benefit of the doubt, and far more often than not I find myself to be an optimist. However, being a thinker and observer I see a lot of what is wrong in the world.  The bigotry, greed and selfishness around the globe, things we often aspire to what we call human nature, are already indications of how the human race needs improvement.  However they all pale in comparison to the worst things prevalent on our planet.  Hatred, killing, and war. Even the decent among us, the vast majority who do not hate or kill, are at best powerless against the forces of evil.  Others are at worst complicit.  We either go through our days working to keep the negative out of our lives, or we pray to God for protection, and in many cases an ultimate redemption for the planet earth.  But make no mistake.  The fact that the world has been a mess for quite some time is far from a mystery to most thinking people, and in many ways it would not be far fetched if we thought for some time that eventually something had to give.

Regardless of how the Coronavirus started, if the world was as all decent people would have it be, void of hatred and killing and rich with concern for the well-being of others, a combination of the the global cooperation and resources available would have made this crisis far more manageable.  But a world where so many are distracted by their hatred or distaste for someone based on their religion, nationality, color, sexual orientation, financial worth or any other ridiculous reason, finds us in a world where we have mastered fighting, but struggle with curing.  I am not saying we deserve what is happening, partially because I would have no right to make that type of judgment and because so many of the innocent will suffer, but I do look at this and hope that when the dust settles and the world resets itself, all of us learn the lessons we need to learn.

Our world tends to call the hope that people will recognize the need for love and understanding to be idealistic nonsense.  That generosity and patience is nice in theory but to expect it from people is naive innocence, or even worse, childish stupidity. We are made to believe that looking at all human beings as equally important is nothing more than weak ignorance.  We are told that is just not the way the world works.  So to that I ask the following question.  Is this world working now?  Could the entire world have been brought to its proverbial knees if we all saw each other as human beings rather than segmented creatures divided by borders, ideologies and physical features?

I believe if we were getting it right in the first place, it would not be going so wrong today.  I often call myself a citizen of the world, and seeing as I am genuine when I say it, by definition I believe that everyone else on the planet is as well.  To feel that way we all need to learn and understand, and I mean understand to our very core, that we all are born and we will all die. We all need oxygen to breath and food to fuel our bodies.  We all bleed red blood and are on this earth for a reason, be it a small one or a substantial one.  The time has come for us to learn this if we are to survive and thrive as an entity in the universe.  That is more than just an opinion.  With the world coming to a halt, with more human beings’ lives shut down than probably any time in earth’s history, people have time to reflect, to think, and hopefully to learn the right way to treat their fellow man. We are truly being given the time to learn. Let’s use it wisely.

People will never be perfect.  That is an unfair expectation.  But with a disease that does not discriminate in any way, shape or form, maybe people will start to understand deep in their hearts that when it comes down to it we truly are all the same.

Like I said, I am a positive person and more often than not, an optimist.  I believe the human race is capable of coming around to the right place.  I have faith in humanity.  Why? Because when it comes down to it we really are all the same and we all want a world that works.  Imagine how much hardship we could overcome if we actually did it together and for each other, rather than battle each other for dominance. That’s the kind of world we should all want. Maybe the lessons we learn now will teach us how to make that world come to fruition.  Maybe once and for all the human race will get it right.

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An Open letter of comfort and encouragement

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Dear People,

Thanks to a conversation I had earlier with one of my brothers, I write this to you with less emphasis on melodrama and more emphasis on having a positive impact on how you feel and how you move forward in this difficult time.  Although many of you are scared or anxious about what is happening today, I want to share with you some thoughts and ideas on how I feel we can all get through this and move forward with our lives in a positive manner.

It begins with gratitude.  Understanding that every day we wake up is another day that we have been blessed with an opportunity to do something good or be with someone we love.  Our lives are all different and everyone has had good and bad things in their lives long before we ever heard of the Coronavirus.  All of us try to manage the various emotions we have to deal with daily.  Some are better at it than others, but with the correct approach we can go into every day recognizing what we have to be grateful for in our respective worlds.  It is all a matter of perspective.  Being scared for the well-being of the people we care for also means that we have people for whom we care.  Being concerned that we will lose some of what we have also means that we have something to lose.  More often than not we have no control over what happens to our loved ones or whether or not we have less or more tomorrow than we have today.  What we do control is how we look at things.  And how we look at things will determine our feelings and actions more than any outside force could ever do.  At a time when people may need to isolate physically, they may be even more aware of how connected they are to others.  I do not enjoy worrying about the people that I love, but I would not change having those people in my life for anything.  There is a price to pay for everything in life, and if the price I need to pay for having friends and family that I love is concern or even heartbreak, rather than focusing on the negative, I will focus on how fortunate I am to have them in my life in the first place.

Many years ago I was married to a woman who developed Stage 4 Ovarian Cancer less than 2 years into our marriage.   Skipping ahead without going into the details of her illness and treatment, she recovered and went on to a live her life.  Although our marriage would end about 4 years later, I learned a wonderful lesson from the time she was ill.  When things in life are most difficult, nothing gets you through it better than taking care of someone else.  Self indulgence or self pity not only do nothing to help anyone or anything, they do nothing to help the individual feeling them. If you want to feel better during these times I urge you to extend kindness to as many people you can find.  Be the person that someone, anyone remembers and says, they were there when I needed them most and they were wonderful.  They gave me some joy, some comfort and even love.  You will find that in doing so you do not only help them immensely, you help yourself as well.

Focus in on the joys in life the current circumstances still allow you to experience and partake in those things.  Control what outside things you allow to stimulate your mind.  If you spend your entire day watching the news, I can almost guarantee you will be far more stressed than if you find something that moves you, excites you, or makes you laugh.  I would go as far as saying I do not recommend you let a day go by, no matter how trying that day may be, without being moved by beauty or amused by comedy.

And lastly I urge you to have faith.  To some that means faith in God, some it means faith in the universe, and others faith in their fellow man.  I am not trying to persuade any of you to  believe in what I believe in, but whatever it is you do believe in, let that drive your faith.  Bad things will happen in this world. It is just the way things are and always has been, but ultimately the last line of defense is not something you can touch or even see.  It is what you feel.  At a time when the powerful have never been more powerless, look into yourselves and I assure you that you can find all the power you need to move forward.

Earlier I mentioned how reaching out and helping others can make such a difference in how you feel and how you handle a bad situation.  In case any of you wonder what I mean by that, if you’ve made it to this point in the letter, by allowing me to provide you with some comfort and encouragement, that is exactly what you helped me accomplish in this letter, and for that I thank you.

Wishing you all strength and peace in the days ahead.

All the best,

David

 

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